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What’s the Story Lady Reading? Story of a Living Peace Symbol: Review of Three Cups of Tea
February 5, 2010 by Ronda Del Boccio, The Story Lady
Filed under Personal Development, Review, Storytelling, personal narrative examples
My eclectic taste in books next brought me to one that some friends of mine read for their book club. Three Cups of Tea: One Man’s Mission to Promote Peace . . . One School at a Time It is a masterful example of direct emotional response storytelling.
Mountain climbing devotee Greg Mortenson made an unsuccessful attempt to reach the summit of K2. He staggered down the mountain, and a wrong turn brought him to the people of a small and poor town. They nursed him back to health, though they mad little to spare, and he found his ultimate purpose in life.
He vowed that he would come back and build a school for their children, including the girls. Yet when he came back to his home in the USA, he found the task of fundraising daunting. Not knowing how to use a computer at first, he individually typed letters to influential people, hoping for donations.
It would only take $12,000 USD to build and supply a school. Yet the wealthy and influential did not flock to his aid. Would you like to guess who gave him the most in donations at first?
Watch this video…
Greg talked to children at the school where his mother worked. He told them about children in Korphe, Pakistan, who drew letters in the sand with sticks and only had a teacher some of the time. Plus, the girls had no way to be educated. They wanted to do something. Realizing everyone has a penny, they collected over 6,000 pennies.
Three Cups of Tea is a real life adventure in bringing education and peace to Pakistan and Afghanistan. You can read the original version of Three Cups of Tea, and there is also a young reader’s version.
This book excites me on many levels. For one, it is a brilliant collection of personal narrative example’s that walk you through Mortenson’s life-changing climb and his passionate dedication to building schools. One of the women I know who read this book thinks Mortenson was crazy to live in his car. I say his passion drove him to sacrifice what most people consider a normal life in order to make his dream a reality.
Imagine this. He cared so deeply about having enough money for a school in Pakistan that he lived in his car and used a storage space to keep a few items. That’s because he did not want the expense of rent to rob the children of their education. He used money sparingly in order to power his dream.
That’s an impassioned servant willing to give up so much, including what we in America would consider “the basics” such as a place to live, because that was the only way he felt he could get things started. Later, he garnered other resources, but at first, he was willing even to give up a place to live. Now he has a modest house and a family.
I truly admire his passionate devotion.
I really love the story about how he met his wife. The video below is his first daughter singing the song, “Three Cups of Tea.”
Education Changes Lives
I’ve been thinking a lot about the power of education since reading this book. In America, education is pretty much a given, and even those who drop out still live in wealth by global standards. You can be a grade school dropout and still have an apartment, a cell phone, a TV, and so forth. I’ve always been a proponent of giving people all oaver the world an education, but I never realized the depth of the issue until reading this book.
My commitment to education is deeper because I understand on a deep soul level what it’s like in places like Pakistan, Iraq, Afghanistan, and so many other parts of the world. When you don’t have an education there, you truly don’t have options. Think of how many people who join the Taliban or other terrorist organizations do so because they’re simply trying to have the ultra basics of food and a roof over their heads. It’s easy to think people make those choices out of political or religious loyalty, but so often, it’s simply because without an education, there are few options.
I cried more than once while reading this book. When I read about the young woman educated in one of the first schools Greg helped establish march into a meeting of men and demand that Greg live up to his promise to send her for medical training so she could help her people. I did a fist pump and shout for joy!
Powered by Peace
Did you ever stop to realize how much peace is linked to education? So often I’ve heard people complain that America will send money everywhere else for schools and medicine. Yet stop to think about it. Sure, children are our future, but it’s more than that cliche.
When you have the opportunity of education, you realize you have choices. Education turns boys and girls with little guidance into empowered young men and women who understand that they can choose their own destiny.
This book will help you know the people of Pakistan. When you know how people live and stop to ask them what is important to them, it is easier to bring about peaceful relations.
One thing that popped out for me as I read the book is the power of relationships. Several times, Greg had intended to build a school in a certain place, however, the wisdom of someone who knew the specific people involved urged him to leverage the relationships first. And this is so true everywhere.
Relationships are the key to building any dream. Greg started out as a lone wolf and spent so much time and energy trying to get things moving. But through the power of people who knew the situation and people who had the financial ability to provide funding, his dream got legs.
Three Cups of Tea is a powerful peace symbol. It is about spending enough time with people to get to know them and share their lives. By the time you have had 3 cups of tea, you have received not only gracious hospitality, but trust.
Please read this powerful book and bring a little more peace into the world in so doing.
order Three Cups of Tea: One Man’s Mission to Promote Peace . . . One School at a Time
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Ronda Del Boccio The Story Lady and Bonnie Tesh, co-authors of I’ll Push You Steer, on Television
January 27, 2010 by Ronda Del Boccio, The Story Lady
Filed under Storytelling, Videos, Writing, how to write a book, personal narrative examples
Author’s Note: This is one of many personal narrative examples on this site.
The morning I appeared on local television was bitter, but inside the car with my mom driving and my co-author Bonnie Tesh, the only thing warmer than the blast of air from the heater was our conversation. We had to leave about 3:30 AM in order to pick up Bonnie and drive to Springfield for our television appearance.
We were about to have a big day. After our early EARLY TV time, we would grab some breakfast and then go to the local Barnes and Noble bookstore to sign copies of our book I’ll Push You Steer: The Definitive Guide to Stumbling Through Lives with Blinders on.
Here’s our first stop at Channel 33 studios:
After our first TV spot (now we’re As Seen on TV!), we had breakfast and went to the bookstore. Now, I adore bookstores and could spend hours in them. I wish we had one here! When I walk into a bookstore, the aroma of paper and ink reminds me how much I adore books – reading them, writing them, talking about them – EVERYTHING!
What’s better than being in a bookstore? Seeing your very own book that you wrote sitting on the shelves. Selling piles of them is really wonderful too.
Bonnie Tesh was much more reserved, though she was excited to see I’ll Push You Steer facing front on the shelves. That is definitely an honor. As for me, well, I am exuberant. I did manage to keep my squeals of joy down to a simmer, but I jumped around with glee.
Here’s a picture of bonnie and I with our book on the shelf at the Springfield, Missouri Barnes and Noble:

When you’re co-authoring a book, it’s always about the team. I got us the TV show and some other media, and Bonnie got us into bookstores. We each had our “area” that we did so that each of us could work from our strength. For I’ll Push You Steer, we each wrote stories taht we divided into categories. What we’ve discovered is that middle school children, and even a few younger, are loving our book. They can read a story and come back later to read another, and it gives them some advice on keeping your joy even in the midst of challenges. Good lessons for anyone, especially our youth.
We’ve had some wonderful adventures. During my travels, I’ve personally sold copies of the book to people on 5 continents. Bonnie did a book signing while she was in Denton, Texas visiting family. We’ve been in a few newspapers, on the radio, on television and all over the internet. We even made a local media event out of signing our contract with our publisher. Bonnie hates how she looks in that picture, so I’ve never posted.
Dan Case is about to publish my book The Instant VIP. I am excited to work with such an ethical publisher and to retain all rights to my book. Bonnie Tesh is working on a novel and a book of true stories.
When you publish your book, you will want to take every possible publicity opportunity. Telling the bookstore we had a TV show that same day definitely opened the door for us to get our books on the sehlves, even though people swore up and down that we couldn’t get our book into B&N .
Bonnie and I are both women of strong belief in ourselves. The minute you tell either of us, “You can’t do that!” we say, “Oh yeah? Watch me!”
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Rant – Misinformed, Misdirected, and Miserable: My Hotels.com Experience and Why I will Not Use Them Again
May 9, 2009 by Ronda Del Boccio, The Story Lady
Filed under Rant, Review, personal narrative examples
In case you haven’t figured it out, this is a rant. This is also a personal narrative example concerning my recent travel experience.
Since I wanted to go to the Impact event a couple days early for some Florida fun, and since the hotel conference h hotel – the Walt Disney Swan and Dolphin Resort – was RIDICULOUSLY expensive, I needed to find an affordable solution for the first couple of nights. I truly HATE having to switch hotels. It is a chore for anyone, but more so when you have extra difficulties navigating and are traveling with a guide dog.
Now imagine this. I’m mostly blind. I’m traveling with a guide dog. I obviously don’t drive, and therefore I have some very specific needs and questions.
That being said, I called Hotels.com and first got a guy who said his name was Albert (yeah right), who barely spoke English.
Feeling less than confident in what I would get from him, I asked my specific questions, which were these:
- Is there a hot tub, and is the hot tub working?
- Is there a shuttle service to Discovery Cove? What times does it run?
- Is there a shuttle to Sea World, and what times?
- Is there a restaurant on property?
“Albert” put me in a hotel called the Imperial Swan Hotel & Suites, which was cheap. However after the call, I discovered that customers had given the hotel ratings of 1 out of 5 from guests. Gee thanks. Just what I need. I don’t require a luxury resort, but I don’t want a dirty dive either. Read more
Watch This Empowering Story by Collin Raye – Quitters – Mar 22,2009
March 22, 2009 by Ronda Del Boccio, The Story Lady
Filed under Accessibility, Storytelling, Writing, personal narrative examples
Collin Raye song Quitters will really get you thinking. You might feel sad and/or you might feel inspired. but you WILL feel.
This is the song. Collin Raye sings “Quitters”, in which you’ll witness some excellent personal narrative examples. Yes, I have to give you a bit of a storytelling lesson, as your own life experiences (personal narrative examples) are the fuel for you growing your own influence. Your stories can empower both you and other people. Watch this.
“He’s not jaded or bitter. He’s gong to leave the giving up to the quitters.”
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